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One way to let go of unwanted tension
Whenever you start feeling a knot in your stomach and your heart beat faster,More...
Tips How to Overcome Exam Stress
Dr. EVA J. HOFFMAN PhD
One way to let go
of unwanted tension
Whenever you start feeling a knot in your stomach and your
heart beat faster,
take a soluble tablet of calcium or vitamin C.
imagine that this tablet symbolises your stress.
take a pen and write on the tablet a big letter S.
fill a glass jug with water and drop the tablet into the jug.
Sit comfortably and breathe deeply,
watching the tablet slowly disappear...
Imagine it is your stress dissolving...
There may be a little of it left at
the bottom of the jug but it won't
make much difference to the solution.
Here is what DOES NOT HELP:
negative self-programming: saying over and over again.
I am so stressed It's all too much for me.
I hate exams, they make me so nervous!
too little sleep.
lack of exercise (at least some...) and fresh air (oxygen!!!).
inadequate preparation.
getting stressed over grades!
Here is what DOES HELP:
focusing on positive self-programming.
getting enough sleep.
some exercise and plenty of fresh air.
adequate preparation.
LETTING GO OF THE RESULT!
Every time you think or are about to say
something about stress and exams,
say to yourself: delete! delete! delete!
and clear your mind of unhelpful thoughts.
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